Blog · June 22, 2026

Facesitting & Smothering Sessions, Explained

What a facesitting and smothering session with Mistress Mercy Rage involves — positions, breath play, latex and jeans options, and how it fits with the premium tier.

Facesitting is the reason half of you found this site. So let's talk about what it actually is in a session, because the clips don't show the parts that matter.

What it involves

You on your back — on the facesitting smother box in my dungeon, which I can occasionally bring to outcalls, or the floor or bed wherever I'm hosting — and me using your face as a seat for as long as I feel like. Clothed by default: jeans, leggings, latex if you've paid the latex request. Smothering is the same thing done harder and longer, with breath control as the point rather than a side effect. It's a premium tier kink, and it pairs with almost everything else on that list: scissor holds, chokeholds, tease and denial, ignore time while I answer messages from your face.

Safety

This is breath play and I treat it like breath play. Before we start you get a tap-out signal that I honour instantly. I count. I don't do smothering with anyone who lied on their form about heart or lung issues. If you have a condition, tell me; there are ways to do this that keep it intense and keep you safe.

What it isn't

It isn't queening. A lot of subs confuse the two: facesitting is what I offer in session — clothed, on your face, on my terms. Queening is intimate service, and it isn't on my services list. You may have seen it as a theme in my clips; that's filmed content, not a session offer. Don't ask on the form, don't ask in the room. The only people who get to even raise it are the ones who have sent, or are actively sending, thousands — and even then the answer is usually no. Everyone else asking just annoys me and dries me up.

Making it better

Book 60 minutes, not 30 — the headspace matters more here than with almost any other kink. Pair it with worship first so you're already under before I sit. And tell me on the form whether you want the humiliation turned up or off; some subs want to be told what they are while they can't breathe, some want silence.

Book a premium tier session and put facesitting first on your list.

— Mistress Mercy Rage · Kitchener · touring Canada

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