First-timers come to me from everywhere. Some have watched a hundred of my clips. Some saw one. Some saw an ad or a tweet and thought, why not. What they have in common is that none of them know what the first ten minutes actually look like. So here it is, start to finish.
Before you arrive
You fill out the booking form. It asks what you're into, what you're not, anything health-related I need to know, and which tier you want. Be descriptive — the more you give me, the more I have to play with. If one of my clips is what brought you here, say which one; that's the clearest brief you can give me. I reply with a date and time. Once we've agreed on one, you send the $50 deposit and your slot is real. Within 8 hours of your appointment you get the location — in Kitchener that's my private dungeon; on tour it's wherever I'm hosting that week.
Be on time. Bring the rest of the fee in cash. You'll shower on arrival and leave your things in the bathroom — that's on the etiquette page along with everything else I expect.
The first minute
I greet you. You hand over the fee. That's the whole ritual — no envelopes on a table, no pretending it isn't happening. Then we go over your form together so I know exactly what I'm working with, and we set a safeword. If you're going to be gagged, we set a gesture instead.
The session
Base tier sessions often open with worship — feet, boots, hands, whatever I choose — because it puts you where I want you fast. Often, not always; some days I skip it. From there it goes wherever your form and my mood take it: humiliation, OTK spanking, CBT, tickle torture, ignore time as furniture while I answer messages. Premium tier opens up the deep end: facesitting and smothering, chastity, pegging, CNC. Sometimes I build to the intense parts. Sometimes I go straight there. It depends on my mood and the vibe of the session, and you don't get a vote.
Talk to me. The first session is where I learn you — what's working, what isn't, where your limits actually are versus where you wrote they were. Tell me if something's too much, too little, or hitting differently than you expected. That's not topping from the bottom; that's giving me information I'll use on you. The safeword is for stopping. Your voice is for everything before that.
After
Water, a few minutes to come back, and a short debrief about what landed. The second session is always better than the first because I know you now — which matters most for the heavier scenes like CNC — possible on a first session, but the heavy version waits until I know you.
What first-timers get wrong
They try to script the scene like they're directing a clip. They book 30 minutes when they need 60 — thirty is a taste, not a headspace. And they skip the etiquette page, which is the fastest way to lose a booking before it starts.
What they get right: apologizing too much. Keep doing that. I like it.
Ready? Book your first session. Tell me it's your first — I'll be exactly as merciless as you can take.
— Mistress Mercy Rage · Kitchener · touring Canada